Many people I've been talking with are getting a divorce or just separating. The couples are breaking up and so on. Not to long ago I had a chance to come across a book called 21 Great Ways to Stay in Love Forever. Think about your future and a person that's going to be close to you. You have to look at your spouse or your partner from different perspective. If you want to be with a person and all things are going well. Then you move in together and BOOM, crash. Everything you thought, expected, all you were building in your relationship has died out. You know, it does not have to be that way. You can stay in control of your relationship and always have that spark that you dreamed about.Think about how many people are getting married and after a few month or even a year separating. Why is that? Separation in most cases happens because people are getting bored of each other. It comes to the point when it's just not interesting any more. Specially in the time that we are living right now it's normal for people to get married for 5 time. What you think, is this normal? If you ask me, I don't think so. I think that marriage should be once, and for good.
Analyze our self and your partner and make the best out of it. When you know how mother nature works you will know all the tricks that will help you stay in love and be loved. It's like any other skill that you have learned. Remember when you where learning how to ride a bicycle? Do you think that you can do it right now. Pick up that metal thing on two wheels and take it for a ride? Absolutely you can. Once you have learned it you will never forget. Same thing here. You master your skill and forget about the worries, just live a happy life.
Best of luck.